Kaypo aunties

I just can't stop thinking of the two of YOU ! The mother and daughter who came to my house last weekend. They are my mother-in-law's friends who runs a mini market near one of the the housing area in PD.

OK, it happend like this. My mother-in-law was telling me that the mini market's owner's daughter (let's call her K as I don't know her name at all) is in her mid 30s and getting married in October this year. She is marrying to a rich man and will move to KL soon after that. K's mother attended my wedding last October and she mentioned that she likes one of the songs from my wedding videos.

Since my mother-in-law wants to get something from the mini market, she asked me to send her there and asked me to provide the song's name to K. After some chatting with her, K suggested that she comes over to my house after lunch on the same day so that she could listen to the song on my i-pod touch and get some advise on what to do before wedding. Damn it ! I should have brought my i-pod to the mini market and all these wouldn't happen. The story will just end like that, right ?!

Unfortunately, to my surprise, they speak like KAYPO AUNTIE from the KAMPUNG. Sorry to say that but I was not very happy with the comments they gave me regarding my pre-wedding and actual day wedding photos. My close relatives and friends do gave me some negative comments about my photos and I've accepted the fact as I know there is nothing perfect in this world. At least they say it out nicely and politely.

The mother and daughter just make me feel so regret for all the photos taken. It's actually the way they commented really makes me pissed off. At that time, I just felt like turning back time and hope I can do better and redo what I've missed out. What about taking another pre-wedding photo (this will be cost consuming right ?) or plan for another wedding (same groom or not ? haha...greedy me) ?

I will provide some examples of pictures and their comments that make me damn tulan till the max ! If I have any chance to see her pre-wedding photos (K will be taking her photos in a month time), I will sure give her harsh comments for her to terasa a bit. I doubt she is aware that she is not as young as me, not as slim as me, not as sweet as me and not as photogenic as me ! OK, you might think that I'm really beh paiseh for saying all these but the fact is always a fact ! :p


I agreed I looked fat in this outfit but I really like the gold dress
and the way the make up artist do my hair. This look is so ME !

Both mother and daughters were asking why I let my hair down ? Why I did not ask the make up artist to tie my hair up high ? The hair do is so ugly ! ^_^" WTF It's my hair la wei ! What a question ?? Furthermore, you just let the bridal shop's hair stylist and make up artist do everything for you la. Why want to interfere them when you don't even know how to do it professionally ? I bet even the professionals themself hire people to do it for their own weddings.

This is my favourite pre-wedding picture !

You know what did K said ? She said "Wahhh...your hubby looks really like an ah pek in this picture la." Paused a while then she repeated twice "Really ah pek la. Hahaha..." Looking at me while pointing at the picture "Really look like ah pek ho ? Why did you choose this picture at the first place ?" Again WTF ! It's just a pre-wedding photo. We normally don't dress up like this so what's the problem with wearing tradisional costume for picture and memory purpose ? 


Thanks to my hair stylist, Jia Er

for doing the Olympic hair.

I know my front hair is not so
tidy as can see the hair clip
but I'm OK with it.

The reason why I did not give any opinions about my make up and hair do was because the hair stylist is my sister's college friend and she did it for free ! So what I did was to let her decide and accept with her choice. I don't like it at the first place too but I'm satisfied after viewing the pictures. Since K and her mother wants to see me with my hair tied up, both continued to condemn my look in this picture ! K said "Why you hair looked so weird one ? Back OK but front so weird la ! Mummy, you see. Weird right ?" Arghhh...what's wrong with both of you ? I just met you the first time and you gave me negative comments without thinking of my feelings and our relationship. You are just my mother-in-law's friends la !

OK, last example ba. Me very tired of complaining liao.


I think I looked simple and nice for the venue.

I like this outfit and look but she said I looked like an auntie ! Really arr ? *sad* *sad* *sad* *cry* *cry* *cry*

OMG, I didn't know this will be such a long post. I'm not happy because she gave me unnecessary comments despite we only met for the first time. How come all the kaypo aunties behave like this ? You have nothing better to say and do ar ? And I realised these people never look themselves in the mirror. Let's see who looks more auntie later. A lady in her mid 30s or a lady in her late 20s ? Haha...Bad karma is following me for all the complains ! But I don't care !